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Life is all about deciding to follow your passion, but sometimes the journey can be overwhelming. Following your passion means taking responsibility for your path in life. The tendency is to want to ‘get it right’ on the first try and not make any mistakes. Unfortunately, this never happens. When you try to control a situation, it is usually out of fear, which you may not be aware that you have. Doing things out of fear usually ends in unintended, less than optimal results. Here are four of the most common mistakes people make when following their passion and how to avoid them.
The Perfection Trap
When you are pursuing your dreams, you want to try to avoid making grandiose plans. You don’t have to find the one perfect passion, but instead, you need just to follow the clues in front of you. Step back and look at what you can do today, and then pick what excites you. When you’ve completed that, look around you and take the next step that interests you.
As you start on your journey to following your passion, look at the options that you currently have available, and then notice which one holds the most interest for you, then do that. You don’t want to try to force things, If you feel overwhelmed, take a break. Relax or focus on something else and when you start to feel better, ideas will emerge.
Worrying about what will happen in the future doesn’t help. If anything, it will make what you are worrying about occur. Worrying about what’s ahead will stop you in your tracks, and you’ll never end up following your passion. Try to avoid thinking negative thoughts. Ask yourself more productive questions and guide your thoughts to what can go right.
Making Fear Your Enemy
When you follow your heart and go after your dreams, you will have to let go of your fears so you can soar even higher. Don’t let fear scare you, instead take it as a sign that you’re on the RIGHT path. If you want to follow your passion, you have to be open to being uncomfortable in order to learn and grow. You can stay in your comfort zone OR have your dreams. Which will you choose?
When following your passion, you have to start looking inside for answers and stop looking for permission. You can and SHOULD define success for yourself. You get one life and it should feel extraordinary for you! You have to stop making excuses for why you can’t take action and just take the next step, and after consistently putting one foot in front of the other, you’ll arrive at your dream life, and it will feel as though it happened by magic!
Monst importantly, don’t do this alone. Join other mom entrepreneurs who are on a similar journey and want to support and encourage you! We GET how the juggle is real AND we can help you when you lose motivation or feel stuck.